I ned a starting point or maybe a plan of learning things for example
1) learn c++ basics
2)learn win 32 api
3)learn direct x 9 with c++..
but i don't know resources or if thta plan is right
You don't need steps 1 and 2 to achieve your aim of learning C++. Steps 2 and 3 are separate aims imo.
I would recommend,
1.) installing a good editor and compiler (I recommend Visual C++ which has both included, is free, and seems to be the standard at the moment).
2.) finding and following a good resource to guide you through learning the basics of C++ (I would recommend http://newdata.box.sk/bx/c/ , its useable by complete begginers and its free)
I would say that's enough of a target for anyone starting from scratch in C++.