I'm working on a social game in which clients, for scalability's sake, are assigned a game server to play on. That way, there can be a limit to the number of players per game server. Unfortunately, players on one server should be able to interact with players on a different server (i.e. visiting friends, etc). My current thought is to use a centralized server which holds the shared data. Ideally, only the game servers would access the central server. But because some of the shared data is unique per player (i.e. gathering a list of actions that a player and their friends have done as a group), this would mean that possibly all players could hit the central server at the same time. Even though that might be very unlikely, this approach sounds a bit inefficient, and may get in the way of scaling the game. Is there a best practice as far as sharing data across multiple game servers? Another idea is to still use a centralized server but replicate/mirror the data on the game servers, perhaps on a schedule, where it doesn't matter if the game server's data is not 100% up-to-date. This approach wouldn't need to hit the central server, but it means making sure to sync the values correctly with the central server (it might be two-way interaction in case the player can have an effect on the values). Thoughts?
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