Spiro speaks the truth.
I started a project as a somewhat average programmer with some artists, but I chose a game that was so far out of my league we had to can the entire thing after a few months. I disappointed everyone on the team.
One of the team members wrote me a really long and hurtful message. Spraying salt on my skinned body would have been less painful than some of the things he said, but it was the truth. He felt extremely passionate about what we were creating, and he blamed me for being an incompetent idiot for throwing the entire thing away and wasting everyone's time.
Trust me, you do not want to go through that pain. I learned my lesson the hard way.