The advice I've seen from people who have made engines (myself included) is as follows:
Don't make engines.
Instead, make a game. After that make another game, and use some of the parts from the first game. Continue this way until you have a big collection of commonly used parts. That's your engine.
That's great advice for someone who thinks they need to make an engine before they make a game. When the motivation to make an engine is just to make an engine, not so much.

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