I wasted a good two years in a state like you described. Eventually the girl ended up cheating on me with some fat dude she met on the internet. In the end I've come to realize after it's all said and done my computer will always be there for me but women will not.
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Aw, That's so sad, I'm sorry, But i'd bet that girl was worth shit. No offense, But dude you gotta have a life not just sit on the computer all day and be a ComputerTard! Just saying. If not that girl there are many girls out there for you. ;) Never lose your hope like you do in programming
Game programming vs Girls
I don't know if I'm supposed to take this seriously, but seriously...
There is about zero things in your way of programming and having a life.
There is about zero things in your way of programming and having a life.
I don't know if I'm supposed to take this seriously, but seriously...
There is about zero things in your way of programming and having a life.
Pretty much this in most cases.
Since you are 18 though, spend a few whole days with her. After that you will either thank god that you have some time off to program or you will be broken up. Either way your problem is solved!
[color="#1C2837"]I don't know if I'm supposed to take this seriously, but seriously...
[color="#1C2837"]There is about zero things in your way of programming and [color="#1C2837"]having a life.
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Learn to manage your time properly and you can easily have both!
I have a fairly hectic life, so I don't have time to really drift off while I'm trying to focus on something. I sing in a band, work, go to school, date, and am working on my game demo to my game that will, hopefully, will be a success in the indie gaming world.
Just set aside at least one hour per day to program and get something done. As long as you get done what you need to get done, you can see, talk, and think about her all you want. It's like others have stated... get your priorities in order and everything will fall into place.
I have a fairly hectic life, so I don't have time to really drift off while I'm trying to focus on something. I sing in a band, work, go to school, date, and am working on my game demo to my game that will, hopefully, will be a success in the indie gaming world.
Just set aside at least one hour per day to program and get something done. As long as you get done what you need to get done, you can see, talk, and think about her all you want. It's like others have stated... get your priorities in order and everything will fall into place.
Talk to the girl and get it over with. No sense wasting time thinking about a gal that may not be interested, so find out one way or the other. In any case, then you can stop being such a mook. Make time for both, and don't mix the two.
In college, I found the girls I was chasing to be far more distracting than the ones I had. Girls will need their space too, you know. If she's interested, she'll be glad you don't want to spend 24/7 with her (unless she's crazy, then run), and will be glad that you've got a productive persuit in you off time.
If you reach that stage, and still find her to be a distraction, then I repeat: stop being a mook -- the problem is you.
In college, I found the girls I was chasing to be far more distracting than the ones I had. Girls will need their space too, you know. If she's interested, she'll be glad you don't want to spend 24/7 with her (unless she's crazy, then run), and will be glad that you've got a productive persuit in you off time.
If you reach that stage, and still find her to be a distraction, then I repeat: stop being a mook -- the problem is you.
I think Ravyne caught the point. I read a book about the power of the mind. Answer yourself this sentence:
What do you really want?
Distraction and lack of concentration problably is showing you that you may be afraid of something you are doing in your life, maybe you are afraid that you aren't able to program, maybe you are afraid of the future, so your mind is trying to keep you far from a potential problem. You will become a better person when you will be able to control your feelings. I'm saying you that my i'm not able myself to control my feeling and emotions, but the most important part is to think you can, everything will succed if you think like that.
Well, in life there will be a lot of situations like this one, now it's a girl, in the future it will be the son, then buying a house. I wish you good luck with both girls and games
What do you really want?
Distraction and lack of concentration problably is showing you that you may be afraid of something you are doing in your life, maybe you are afraid that you aren't able to program, maybe you are afraid of the future, so your mind is trying to keep you far from a potential problem. You will become a better person when you will be able to control your feelings. I'm saying you that my i'm not able myself to control my feeling and emotions, but the most important part is to think you can, everything will succed if you think like that.
Well, in life there will be a lot of situations like this one, now it's a girl, in the future it will be the son, then buying a house. I wish you good luck with both girls and games
Ahhh, young love! If you think this is bad, wait till she tears your heart out. When my first girlfriend broke up with me, it was probably the most counter-productive time of my life! I spent about six months of my life writing emotional blog entries, wearing black and failing at everything constructive I attempted. Yuck!
Just give it some time, your hormones will eventually level out and you'll learn to appreciate time apart too. I have been with my current girlfriend for just over two years - wonderful as she is, I have had to learn to balance things out. Initially, we even had fights about it and she told me to get a puppy. These days I have learnt to appreciate my computer at times. For instance, I never have to be jealous of my computer - it never gets hit on by strange men, despite being a downright sexy beast in its own right!
Although quite frankly, leading a balanced life is always going to be something that requires some deliberate planning and discipline. That goes for all of us. Godspeed!
Just give it some time, your hormones will eventually level out and you'll learn to appreciate time apart too. I have been with my current girlfriend for just over two years - wonderful as she is, I have had to learn to balance things out. Initially, we even had fights about it and she told me to get a puppy. These days I have learnt to appreciate my computer at times. For instance, I never have to be jealous of my computer - it never gets hit on by strange men, despite being a downright sexy beast in its own right!
Although quite frankly, leading a balanced life is always going to be something that requires some deliberate planning and discipline. That goes for all of us. Godspeed!
Men are notoriously bad at multitasking, and there is no way to ignore girls while they occupy your thoughts, and still come out sane. Pick your priorities and work them down in order; one after another.
Damn, Thanks guys , I know problem is by my side but i wanted to know what you guys did when you were at this problem. Anyways, I just talked with her, Ironically we're just friends, She doesn't know that i have a crush on her, Well soon i'd be telling that to her. ( I hope so )
P.S My hormones are raging.
P.S My hormones are raging.
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