Maybe that's the problem? The last 30 years have been built on the phrase "There is no such thing as "society," only individuals and families". It's socially acceptable to be isolated and only care about yourself or your family (a position that would be abhorrent in other cultures), and some vague sense of belonging to the nation as a whole. As you pointed out, the kind of societies where less cut-throat policies work fine are ones where people actually interact with each other socially.
Maybe economic models are completely irrelevant if the root cause of the problem is actually in social organisation?
That's kind of the way I see it. I'm still sort of working through my own personal philosophy about these things, really, as until recently I've lived pretty comfortably and had few complaints. Had the blinders on, so to speak. But the past ten years have been pretty terrifying. It might sound dramatic to say so, but we've been seeing the failure of democracy and free enterprise in this country; unfortunately, the shape of that failure looks horribly like the worst form of communism from my current perspective,
I come from (and have recently moved back to) a very small farming community in Wyoming. Close access to large stands of timber, metal resources, and plenty of arable land. Close to the top of the water-shed, so abundant water. Locally we produce numerous crops and agricultural products: sugar beets, corn, wheat, barley and so forth, as well as plenty of cattle, sheep and pigs. A dam a hundred miles away provides hydroelectric. Our area isn't self-sufficient, but it could be very near to it if necessary, making up the rest through barter. I understand the allure of communism because I grew up exposed to a simpler form of it. (Though capitalism based upon trust-based barter might actually be a more accurate description) Still... the community is fairly tight knit. And we share and help each other, to a certain extent. For the past several years, our community has done a large community garden to which all contribute, and all are allowed to partake of the harvest. The product of the garden, as well as our own garden at home, has provided a very significant part of my family's food supply in the last couple years. It's all the best parts of communism/socialism, but it's based upon the simple necessity of everyone doing their part.
Take any society and break it down to the most basic fundamentals that it needs to survive and you have a list that is pretty much what an individual needs to survive: food, water and shelter. Food is the ultimate basis of any economy; everything else is a house of cards built on top of it. Take away the supply of food, and your society will die; all the technology, all the services and products, the gizmos and doodads are ultimately just markers representing food (or water or shelter). Even video games are just very far-removed markers. We make the games so that we can pay the rent and buy the bacon.
The recent election was an eye-opener for a lot of people here where I live, people who have until now been relatively content to do their farming and growing and herding, business as usual, not entirely happy with the federal government but not discontent either. That is, until recently. Look at the election maps for the recent presidential election, see who voted Romney and who voted Obama. The blue dots are almost a picture-perfect portrait of the urban areas. The red dots, conversely, outline the rural. The producers. This election, more than any election I have witnessed in the context of this place, struck fear into the hearts of the producers of this country. We had record voter turnouts, and record new-voter registrations, levels unheard of in any past election. The reason can be summed up with one stupid, made-up word: Obamaphones.
Now, yes, most people around here are decent. If folks are in need, most people around here will help. We are pre-dominantly LDS (Mormon), and at any given point in time there are any number of service projects (quilting, sewing, care package assembly, even "exports", if you will, of volunteers to disaster areas around the area or country) in progress. We enjoy helping others; it brings us happiness. But "help" does not, in our minds, translate to "give that lady a phone". Why should we labor and sweat so that she can have her food stamps and her phone, given to her on a platter if only she'll vote the Democrat line? That is the worst form of communism, right there. That is a boot on our necks. That is armed force taking from us the fruits of our labors in an act of forced compassion to sate the greed of someone who is simply unwilling to do the work for themselves. It doesn't matter if we have a surplus; that sort of imbalance is, and should be, an outrage to any free person. Charity and kindness are great, and there are people who truly need help. We don't begrudge anyone who truly is in need, but that's not what we're seeing. We're not seeing people truly in need, we're seeing people who have been promised food stamps and Obamaphones and free healthcare, and all of these are markers that boil down to that most basic of currencies: food. And it's us, the people of my community and of thousands of other communites just like mine, who are going to ultimately have to foot that bill. We're going to have to labor, above and beyond the level of our subsistence, so that those folks can have their phones for free.
That's the brand of communism we face.
It's pretty easy to say "provide useful labor for everyone and people will be happy to do their fair share" but will they? Will they really? I don't think so. I think that the welfare-state mentality, the handouts and the Obamaphones are very persuasive bribes. As you say, who wouldn't want to kick back and let the robots gives us food so we don't have to work for it? I have lived in the city as well (8 years in Phoenix, 5 in Seattle) and I have seen the other side of the coin. I have lived among people who, for all that they knew about where the food actually comes from, might as well have been living off the sustenance of those magical robots. They were consumers in every sense of the word, taking in and taking in and not giving back so much as a cent or an ear of corn. I have done drywall and tile work in the apartments of countless people, able-bodied and young, who had no gainful employment nor any inclination to seek out such, but who had their Obamaphones (and ObamaXBoxes, and ObamaHDTVs, and ObamaMacs) regardless.
Romney was hung out to dry for his remarks regarding the 47%, but he was only voicing the same concerns that have suddenly become grave matters sitting at the very forefront of the minds of the majority of my friends, family and associates in this place. We are the producers, the very foundation of one of the 3 legs of society, and this particular unsavory brand of communism that this country is embracing is a jack-boot aimed directly at our necks. We aren't facing some sort of communist utopia, where there is plenty for all and everyone is happy to pitch in and help how they may. We are facing a communism where 10% of the population will sweat and labor so that 47% can have their Obamaphone.
In a free-market economy, we can farm for our subsistence and sell our surplus for markers or barters for luxuries and conveniences provided by someone else. But if that boot comes down and the communists come in and say "you must labor and produce so that these others can have their unearned share" then what markers do we get in return? What does that lady with her Obamaphone contribute back to us, such that society is made better for her contribution? What good is it to us? Should we just throw up our hands and say "We don't want to work anymore, so give us our Obamaphones and our food stamps so that we don't have to!"
Sorry, this is turning into kind of a crazy rant. I know it's currently fashionable to affect an air of compassion ("We have to help those illegal immigrants, we have to have compassion, why can't you just give your Fair Share and help out these welfare recipients? Why are you so cruel, that you can't pay for everyone else's healthcare? Why are you so selfish that you can't pay your crushing tax burden to help out these people who won't help themselves?") I know it's currently "in" to talk about socialism and wealth re-distribution, about taxing those filthy evil rich people because there are poor folks out there who still haven't been given an Obamaphone. But replacing free enterprise with the jack-boot is the only thing we're looking at here, and to hear other people (outsiders, people who won't have to live with the immediate, direct consequences of what is happening) say "Just embrace communism already, you damned capitalist pig" (maybe not in so many words) is frustrating and infuriating, to say the least.
Anyway, again, this has kind of brought out the bad side of me, and I really don't have the understanding of society and economics that I really need to make reasoned decisions: an oversight of mine that I am seeking to rectify, slowly and painfully. I kind of feel bad and dirty, really, for even taking part in this discussion, simply because I don't know enough. But I have a healthy amount of real fear (we are already seeing plenty of ripple-effects, of this election and certain bad bits of policy) and, for me and my neighbors, the brand of communism being brought to us is a pretty scary sight, rather than the hopeful one that some people would have us believe it is.