Welcome to GameDev!

Start here:

http://www.gamedev.net/page/reference/faq.php/_/for-beginners-r1

and then here:

http://www.gamedev.net/page/resources/_/technical/general-programming/what-language-do-i-use-r3318

sorry about this can a admin or moderator delete this i didnt realize there was a beginners forum

We could, but we would never delete a question. It's here so future coders will search and find it.

The staggering amount of learning material (books, YouTube tutorials, Web sites) for engines like Torque, Unity, and UE4 make them ideal to start with. Take a look at each of them, their features, and some of the existing learning materials and just pick one. You can always switch to something else later, so don't consider it a long-term choice.

Experiment, learn everything you can, and ask questions. 13 is not too young to get the ball rolling so enjoy the process!

sorry about this can a admin or moderator delete this i didnt realize there was a beginners forum

I'm going to move it to the beginners forum. If there are duplicates after that, one will be locked, which is as close as we get to deleting things that aren't spam or verbal abuse or something like that. Welcome to GameDev.