I've started with assembler, that helped me until today to always understand what happens on the CPU. I don't think it's useful to make a game in assembler, but understanding that CPUs load data into registers, etc. is really important. And there is no better way to learn than to try that by using assembler. Might be enough to learn that for 3 Months.

Then I'd suggest C and C++, if you manage to learn that, you can easily use java, c#, objective-c, php,... etc. doing it the other way around is somehow harder. At least when you see source from someone previously just worked with higher languages, his/her c++ looks not the way it should be.

And you should always know, nobody programs in c++ perfectly, it's a vast language and it's not bad what you know, it would be just bad if you'd stop to learn more.

Don't worry about what language you are going to choose - the language will choose you! :)

Every time you get exposed to a new language, you pick up ideas and new ways of thinking that will change the way you think about and use your current languages.

More important than the languages is the different paradigms the languages fall into, Object-Oriented (C# and Java, and to a lesser degree C++), functional (Haskell, Lisp/Scheme, OCaml, maybe Python).

If you really want a great mix then Python, C#, Lisp, Ruby and C++. Plain C is also a great idea, since you can actually create some extremely beautiful code with it.

Objective-C is probably also a good choice (money-wise; think Apple appstore..)

Just like people will answer "use Unity" when asking for a game engine, people will say "use C++" when asked for a language.

I answer: why choose one at all?

Just use whatever gets the job done. It's not a religion. :)

C# and Java are pre programmed algorithms, where you need to install more crap on your PC.

Wont it nice to know how it realy works ?, and make your own "optimized" functions in C++ ?

Why re-invent the wheel ?, because i like to do so!

I've been interested in learning how to create games but I'm not sure which program is best

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Some say Unity is best but some say C# is too difficult to learn and C++ is the way to go.

If you`re interested in game design (game logic, AI, hi level programming in general) learn c#, it will get you there faster.

However game design jobs are rare so If you`re interested in getting a job as a programmer, c++ is required.

C# and Java are pre programmed algorithms, where you need to install more crap on your PC.
Wont it nice to know how it realy works ?, and make your own "optimized" functions in C++ ?

Why re-invent the wheel ?, because i like to do so!