Ghost stories are not unusual. The many experiences that Nehe had is quite common. In the country where I came from, after the funeral, we usually talk about experiences/observations. It seems that almost everyone had some unusual experiences that freak them out. I myself have several, too! One time, during my grandfather''s funeral I was playing with this kid that I knew. We were playing hide and seek at night. I tried to chase this kid that I knew when suddenly this kid disappeared from my view right in front of me. It freaked me out that I ran back home (we were playing at the backyard). An hour later, I saw this kid recently arrived from a bicycle. I approached him and told him it was not fair to do that such a thing--hide?. With a look of surprise, he told me that he was not even at home! He didn''t play with me! He said that I could ask my other cousin who went with him. To rationalize, I definitely asked my cousin whether this kid is telling the truth. Sure enough he said both of them were not there. Still doubting, I asked this kid''s mother and she said they just recently arrived! This freaked me out! But to see your dead love one in front you is even freakier! Once you see one, no amount of logic or science can explain it! You can never be again unconvinced! Nehe''s mother was just giving a clue that she is fine. Lucky enough her mother didn''t show herself yet!

Thanks for the condolence, NeHe_Lover. When Jeff feels better you might have him read the link I posted above - here it is again:
http://www.oiquarterly.org/vol02/num2/vol02-2-05.htm. I rebuilt this web site for the fellow who publishes the newsletter and as I read this interview - 4 years after my mother''s passing - I found it very helpful.