Ok fine, lets say C# is the best overall in performance & learning.

I have tried making my game in Unity and it has NOT gone well, i got VERY frustrated over it due to lack of community support.

Many have stated that I start in baby steps, so I did, i done one of the Unity tutorial series (Stealth) and of all the tutorials i have found, none have explained a piece of code in detail. This is what i have EXPERIENCED.

Unity has some of the best community support of any of the engines or frameworks that I have used. It has tons of tutorials and videos on youtube and around the web. I don't know if you didn't search hard enough or what but there is a ton of info and learning material on unity out there.

Thing is, what other users are saying to you is right, is better to use other language than VB for games; but certainly nobody is responding what you are asking.

So here are some realistic options to develop your game:

1. So, you want to make a game. Well, you don't have to reinvent the wheel... use a game engine with IDE like GameDevelop (compilgames.net) it's free (and became open source just today so it will be free forever), intuitive, and you don't need to write a single line of code to make a game like a 2D pokemon RPG with this software.
2. Ok, so you want to code your game. Use Lua+Löve. Lua is a general purpose programming language that's popular around the indie gaming community, if you can understand and write VB code you can understand and write Lua code after reading a short tutorial in 20 minutes. Lua is extremely easy to learn and Löve (love2d.org) is an extremely easy to use 2D game framework to write games in Lua (btw, Lua+Löve = free).
3. Ok, so you want to stay with VB. Well, first you have to choose if you want to use vbclassic or one of its forks, or the latest vb.net iteration. Next step, go to this page: vbgamer.com and take a month reading tutorials before writing a single post. From here you have more options: you can choose a 2D game engine (like Allegro [allegro.cc], for example... it's intended for C++ but you can use it with .NET languages) to work with VB or you can do what I did more than ten years ago: learn to bypass bitblt processing in VB moving blocks of memory with address pointers synchronized to the internal CPU tick counter (in fact, that's useless to make a game in a short amount of time but you can get a lot of learning on how to make games in a language like VB, specially for when you start to wonder why the FPS ratio are a mess).

And now, some 2D oriented FREE game engines that work with VB:

• Allegro
• FlatRedBall
• Ovorp
• Ice2D

There are lots more, specially if you search for open source projects in sourceforge.com or github.com...

... and nope, I just don't want to list the features of each game engine, sorry and good luck