I'm trying to use forward declarations so I don't have a whole bunch of #includes (it can slow down compile time, it's just a practice thing for me though) .Sounds to me like you've had enough practice on how to do it, and now you could use some practice with when it's appropariate to use it.
This is not really an appropriate place to do it, and you certainly shouldn't be deleting and newing up a new one each time. At the very least, you'd use copy-assignment.