"-intelligent (like i am)... "
Anybody who claims they are intelligent, probably isn''t...
I''m not saying you aren''t intelligent, but just a little bit of advice for future reference.
Im going to raise some points here, and Im really sorry if anyone is offended, but this is what I think:
The average woman seems to lack the confidence the the average man does. Most women seem to have a poorer self image than most men. This is why (i believe) alot of girls are caught up in clothing and makeup.
When it comes down to it, most women just don''t feel safe or secure. This is why most women are attracted to stong men who are taller than them. They need a man they can snuggle into (i.e, feel mentally safe), to protect them when they are walking down the street, and to basically just look out for them. This is why women always want to drive SUV''s and family-trucks.
I think alot of that is sub-concious in a SOME girls mind''s, and she''s does even realize it. I find that women seem to be a bit more nicer to people (i.e, afraid to hurt another''s feelings), that men, I think that can also be explained by what im saying.
Most men on the other hand seem to be more condifent with themselves. I probably sound like I think women suck, but that is NOT TRUE AT ALL. Men are looking for a (oh god I can feel the huge flames coming already, but lack of a better word) .. pet? .. in a girl. Now I know I must sound like a hardcore wife-beater, but I DO NOT MEAN a "pet" in the sense that men want to own our girlfriends/wives, but we (well most of us) want a girlfriend for similar reasons we would want a pet (that must sound hugely funny to the dudes that only want women for sex
. Most of us would want a pet to keep us company, to love us, and to be there for us when we are sad. There are obviously more reasons why a man needs a woman, but that is good for starters.
Why is my perfect girl?
Well my perfect girl is my ex-girlfriend (sadly)
I will just have to find her again.
They say you marry your mother (those reading this from alabama or wainfleet, don''t get excited), which I definitely agree with.
My perfect girl can''t be materialistic. To say the least, I hate it when girls wear make-up. Alot of them use it as a mask to hide behind, which is very phony. I''m all about the natural beauty
She can''t be a ditz, which is something alot of guys don''t like. Ditzy girls are *friggen* annoying.
She can''t be the type that "consults her friends" before she does something with you. If she doesn''t know if she wants to do something, she should bring it to MY attention. Relationships are about the 2 people in them, not the 2 people + their respective circles of friends (thus the reason high-school relationships rarely workout)
She can''t be a huge feminist either. I realize girls want to be treated fairly, but most girls who are "feminists" put on a phony image that they are secure and safe, and VERY self sufficient, but in reality, are completely the opposite.
What she does have to be is basically the same thing every other guy is looking for. Someone who is loving, kind, intelligent, has a sense of humor, somewhat cute or pretty, etc, however, all those things are secondary. What is really important is what the two of us have been through together, and the good times that we''ve shared. Thats how you come to truely love somebody.
PLEASE don''t flame about any of those statements a made, they are all just what i''ve observed! I''m not a wife beater, and I treat women properly, and I''m not a male dominator!
My 2 cents.
"This is stupid. I can't believe this! Ok, this time, there really IS a bug in the compiler."... 20 mins pass ..."I'M AN IDIOT!!!"